Why Russian Women?
Why ? Good Question.
American women's expectation are so high and so out of "wack" with reality, the likelihood of not ending in divorce is low. American women seem unable to seperate the fantasies of American TV, Soap Opera's, movies, videos, and tabloid's from real life. They expect all men to look like the cover of Gentleman's Quarterly and be similarly polished in romancing a woman.
I refuse to buy into that stupid set of unrealistic expectations and parameters. Some Foreign women (Russian) appreciate those qualities that i bring to the table, the ability to provide for a family, the capacity to be truly loving and attentive, etc. Some Foreign women, not just Russian women, do not have that "What have you done for me lately" attitude that most American Women have.
And then time is a rare comodity. The problem is two-fold, American women want to be wined and dined and romanced and I am like a kid in the Candy Store. When I was out their dating, I would always see one more that I wanted to test drive. I screwed up. Now the good ones are all taken and the younger women that meet my requirements are highly sought after by younger men. My days and ambition a consumed by work and hobbies, and I just want to find a woman I am compatible with without getting side-tracked in the Candy Store again. [The answer to the obvious question is that I am so focused on my goals and hobbies that if I generally only notice women when i am purposely looking for them] It is nice to see a picture, some basic facts, interests and hobbies, education, occupation without having to spend time and money on dinner and a movie.
Further, some foreign women have more more what others refer to as "Traditional" values. In my case, I want to have children and a good mother to our children. I am not looking for a toy, or maid or play thing. I want someone who compliments my personality and may be more appreciative of the material things I give or can give her than an American woman could/would.
Then, of course, is the fact that I can likely find someone relatively more attractive and younger, than I could find in the USA. And, as importantly, I can find out their dreams, expectations, and aspirations more quickly. From those declarations, I can quickly winnow the keepers from the heartbreakers(and pocket book emptiers) Most RW's are interested in Long Term Relationships.
And, many Russian Women have the advantage of being Caucasion... While I personally have few racist tendancies, others in America do... This does not mean I would not pursue a relationship with somebody who was not caucasion, but it does give Caucasion Russian women a leg up, in the competition.
Also, Russian women tend to have a height advantage over some foreign women that tend to be more tradition but whom tend to be shorter. I love petite(asian) women, but the U.S. studies show that tall persons get paid more and promoted faster than shorter people. I stress again, I would not choose solely on this basis, but if I can give a future son a "leg up" in the hieght department, I don't think he will complain.
And, Of couse their is the excitement of meeting a foreign women.
Hope I gave you what you are looking for.
Sincerely,
Don
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