Why Russian Women?
Hello Andrew,
I will try to answer your question. My reason to look for a Russian wife has been an evolution that started from the difficulty of finding a woman in the area I live in California that was attractive, available, ready for love, and had a good character. I read an advertisement from a major Russian introduction agency here in the U.S. and saw many beautiful ladies that seemed to want to get married, and there was much "propaganda" from them telling how they had such good qualities and didn't mind so much about an age difference. So my interest started because it appeared that with so many attractive ladies I would have a large choice and would be able to find a younger woman that was pretty and knew what she wanted.
I quickly found out that none of the ladies whose addresses I purchased ever wrote me back. When I contacted this agency about the one lady I selected to begin with, after writing to her, waiting months, and never hearing from her, they told me she was already married. I actually had given up on this method and had lost faith in the idea, but I was contacted by an agency in Los Angeles that had an office in Saint Petersburg. I was able to write to any lady in their web catalog for a small monthly charge and so I gave it a try. I had a good response and realized that maybe some Russian ladies were interested in me. So I went to SPb on a package trip, and met many Russian ladies. I became engaged to one, that I wrote to for 5 months before going there, and brought her to the U.S. She really should not have come because she was pressured by her mother to come, but not own her own will. She decided in 3 days to go home.
I have learned that age difference does matter to many ladies, but to many it doesn't. I have also learned that most of these ladies want marriage as a means to have children, rather than to find their "other half". I also learned that even though so many of them are listed with agencies, they are all not that serious to leave Russia, etc., their friends, and their culture. Also, many don't have the right circumstances to make such a change in their life. Correspondance doesn't really establish a relationship well because it must be consistant and regular to become serious enought about a lady in order to travel around the world to just meet her. Most ladies don't write back right away, and after so many letters, you just don't hear from them.
I have just returned from a smaller city outside Moscow, and used the service of an agency that is here where I live and has an office there. There program is rather unique and their service is really setup well to help men meet many women, date or interview them, and determine if any of them are serious, capable, and ready to make such a change for a man. They don't overcharge for this service and really help in all aspects of meeting and bringing a good woman to the U.S. without trying to just use men for as much money as they can get. They actually seem to care about the ladies, and whether they can find a "match".
I did meet several ladies I liked that I thought could really work out for me, and one that I am serious about. If I keep failing at this, I will probably give up and only concentrate on American woman again, as it is an expensive adventure to marry a Russian woman and hope that she will like the U.S. and be a successful wife for me. I have made 4 trips to Russia so far, and I do like the style, characters, beauty, and the enormous number of Russian women. It is those reasons that make it seem worth it to me. I do know some men that have had similar unsuccesses and some that are very happy.
I originally thought it would be easy to find a woman in Russia for a good wife, as meeting women here is not such that I can go to an agency and meet 50 women that want to be married. I can only meet them by unreliable methods such as personal ads, social events, and by chance. It just seemed that the odds of finding a woman I felt I could be attracted enough to and her to me, as well as actually being able to love her and be loved by her were much greater in Russia.
I hope that helps you understand. There are many attractive ladies here, as well as unattractive ones, but you have to meet them on your own, and try to date them, and many have boyfriends, or are married, or don't care much about a relationship, etc. It is just a matter of trial and error and chance.
Sincerely,
Mark
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